My family is at a difficult stage of life right now, as my 80-year-old mother is showing increasing levels of dementia. She needs to be reminded where she is, what we're doing, whom she is with--even what she likes--and she's fond of telling tales from long, long ago--sometimes repeating the same stories ten minutes later.

I am especially grateful now that she had let me start scrapbooking her huge stash of family pictures over a year ago. The stories and details she shared with me as we sorted the pictures at that time have become so much more than just journaling facts for our family history. As she recedes into her long-term memories, the information she shared while still in the world of reality have given me a way to relate with her that I didn't have before.

So now, I can guide her as she retells the stories, and what a delight to see her face light up as she recalls the scene again. This was a benefit I did not expect from scrapbooking--but it is certainly one I welcome, and I encourage you to scrapbook your aging relatives' lives not just for the future--but to be able to minister with those same stories.

And if you're not a scrapbooker, there are many professional scrapbookers who will take the information you gather and preserve it in book form for you--but what I found out with my Mom is that the process is so much more important than the finished product!
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